Budgeting is just one way of managing your money. My husband and I don’t do budgeting. In this post I shared other strategies and tools we use.
What comes to mind when you think of budgeting? If you think it’s tedious, stressful, or restrictive, then you’re not alone!
Many people claim budgeting is good for your financial health. Much has been written on this topic, from why you need a budget to creating a budget to managing a budget. For a short while, I truly believed having a budget was the way to become wealthy. But my husband and I passed on it after we had a long discussion on the topic. That was in year 2010.
Six years later, my husband and I decided to give budgeting a try. Many personal finance bloggers were doing this. They must knew something, right? We wanted to see what expenses we could cut. The lower our expenses are, the earlier we can retire. We tried for three months. Our consensus? The process was painful, tedious and mentally difficult. It was not about the math. The formulas were simple and the spreadsheet took care of the calculations. It was not about our different views on money. We generally agree on how to manage our household finances. It was not a lack of patience. My husband tracks our portfolio performance almost on a daily basis, and this involves lots of number tracking and focus. So what did it come down to? We lacked commitment. We didn’t see the benefits.
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